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What Are The Top 5 Signs That Your Wife or Girlfriend Is Cheating?

Top 5 Signs That Your Girlfriend Or Wife Is Cheating

By Melody Chase

There are many signs that your partner may be having affair and many of these signs are gender specific. For this article, let’s examine the Top 5 Signs that your female partner is cheating

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The following signs can all work together or be individual signs not related to the others that are listed:

1) Your Partner Changes Her Appearance: Changes in appearance is always the #1 sign of a female partner having an affair. If your partner is suddenly dressing nicer or in a way that makes her look more attractive than usual or if your partner starts doing things to make herself look better like losing weight, working-out or working out more this very well may be a sign of cheating. Another very common example of changing appearances is if she changes her hairstyle and/or hair color.

2) Change of Schedule: Not to sound like I’m from the 50s or anything but unless single or a widower - males seem to have more freedom to extend working hours or take on extra shifts and part-time jobs than females because females seem to be juggling more areas of responsibility then men, (i.e. taking care of the family, kids, household, extended family, friends and work) so if suddenly your female partner drops everything else to work extra hours at work or take on a new part-time job or hobby at the expense of her normal responsibilities it has to be for a really enticing reason – either she has figured out how to save the world and bring world peace plus the cure for cancer or she has found someone that she is willing to turn her life upside down for.

3) Your Partner Suddenly Builds Self-esteem and Boundaries: What is usually so enticing about having affairs is that more than likely the woman having the affair is being understood, validated and unconditionally loved for who she is and is often seen as attractive and wanted sexually (Like the Cheap Tricks Song “I want you to want me”. She may have been suffering from low-self esteem and low self-worth as a result of not getting her needs met and this new person that she is having an affair with, (even if it is just the result of the courtship phase) has restored everything she has lost. The result is that she has had a sudden wake up call and realizes she doesn’t have to be a doormat or be taken for granted anymore. Her affair partner understands and supports her so everyone else in her life should too. So the end result is that she will be saying “no” to people a lot, booting toxic friends out of her life and will not be holding back in regards to telling you what she wants and doesn’t want in her relationship and life.

4) Your Partner Is Content and Is No Longer Using Control Dramas: If your partner is crying, fighting with you and/or is breaking down every couple of days because she is so unhappy and so unfulfilled and suddenly she is happy and content - either she has gone into the “Now” and has found inner peace or she has found someone else to fulfill her needs.

5) Your Partner Is No Longer Jealous of Other Women: If your partner is normally jealous and can tell when you are checking out a member of the opposite sex even when her back is turned and suddenly now not only is she is no longer threatened but is actually checking the girl out with you and pointing out other hot girls – no… she hasn’t turned to the other team - she just may have turned to another man instead. If a female feels like her mate thinks she is attractive, that her mate has only eyes for her and that he has no interest in checking out what’s potentially available out there for him - she will have no need for jealousy of other women.

So if you do not fit this description of the ideal male mate that I just described - your female partner may have found someone else who does. In conclusion, if your partner is not cheating, the above list of behaviors is also what occurs when a person and in particular a female is in the process of self-growth and learning self-love which is usually a gradual process and is something that she would like to share with you. If she has mentioned to you in the past that she is on a self-growth or spiritual journey and you laughed, shrugged her off or ignored her - she may have decided to continue her journey without telling you to prevent further toxicity in her life.

If that is the case, it is never too late to start listening to her and give her the support she is looking for. Otherwise, if she is going through any of the signs above and is being secretive about her behavior, it may in fact be the Top 5 Signs of Cheating that you need to be looking out for.

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