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36 Love Tips

36 Practical Tips to Enhance your Marriage Life

Rebuilding your marriage and love life - Must Work on yourself first.

Two unhappy and broken people cannot fix each other. Do something loving for yourself every day.  Make yourself happy then come back and do something loving for your partner.  The relationship will follow suit.

Be honest with yourself – No one else can do the work that you alone need.

When you learn to love yourself first, it teaches you how to love others. Learn to love you. Only then will you have the kind of love your partner needs.

Begin all over again - Begin with a fresh start.  Start from the beginning.

Remember when you first met and everything was great?  Each of you seemed to know what to do. The relationship was everything you wanted, right?  Get re-acquainted. Get to know each other all over again.  Start wooing each other like you did back then. Think a minute on those special moments.  Think about those moments again.

Resolve all problems and differences now to recreate those good times again.

Begin a fresh start in your love life any moment you choose. Forgive yourself and your partner for all past mistakes. It is time to move forward and without regrets.

Establish a love life enhancement goal - What is your relationship goal?

Identify what is most important to you and to your partner in the marriage? Spend quality time together talking about what is important to both of you. Set some love life goals. Write them all down on paper. Setting goals will allow you both to control the direction of change you wish for. To follow a new path without knowing where it leads is like walking into a maze.

Develop a love life sense of humor - Laugh about anything or nothing at all for 1 minute of each day.

Show your lighter side.  Smile and then smile again.  It is very contagious. Cultivate a positive attitude by only looking at the bright side of things for a change.

Claim your bliss - Be happy now!

It is your choice.  You can choose to be angry, depressed and revengeful which will lead to nowhere in the marriage.  Or you can live and love to your absolute fullest and watch as the sparks start to fly.

Cultivate togetherness - Plan to spend time together.

The key now is to "plan." Stand by what you plan. Keep your commitments to be only with your partner. This will give a signal to your partner that you are serious in making the marriage work.  Work on this together and you will accomplish much more.

Cultivate calm – Don not let disagreements spoil your love life.

Freely offer words such as, "I'm sorry," when needed and then put it behind you. Do not waste valuable time nursing a quarrel.  Someone has to be first to back down -- might as well be you. Your love life will not thrive in an atmosphere of discord.  Remember, sometimes it is best to lose so that you will win.

Do not allow negative behavior to rule your love life - When the relationship is strained, it can sink very quickly.

Sometimes you do not do what your partner wants you to do, so he/she becomes upset and even distant. Agree to allow each other to make your own choices. Remember, women will respond quickest to a man's action or lack of action. Men will respond quickest to a woman's attitude.

Take good care of yourself.

When you feel tension present in your love life it is easy to reach for inappropriate food, alcohol or drugs. This is a big mistake. Resolve to pamper yourself. A healthy mind and body will translate into a healthy love life.

Sleep until rested.

You cannot make up for lost sleep. When you are well rested you love yourself and then you have more to offer your loved one.

Give genuine gifts!

Take the time to pay sincere gifts of love. Offer genuine compliments often. Offer generous praise for your partner. The road to prosperity in your love life will be paved with a commitment to generosity towards your partner.

Feel close to your partner.

We feel closest to those who cause us to feel good about ourselves. Lavish gifts and show expressions of love on your partner.  It is not necessary to be extravagant but a simple note to say “I Love You” placed next to your partner’s breakfast plate is more then sufficient. Bring them straight from the heart.

Show appreciation.

Nurture your love life with warmth and goodwill.  This inspires your partner to want to please you. Appreciation is among the top ten needs for most people.

Exercise better choices.

This is a great gift. It requires that you do not repeat the bad choices you have made in your love life that have brought you to this point in time.  Shift your focus and your outlook in your marriage.  Look for and see the goodness in your partner.  This will spur you on to even better choices.

Show affection!

There is great healing in your power of touch. Hold hands. Give each other little pecks on the cheek and little kisses regularly. Give your partner a massage. Spend time holding and caressing. Give your partner an extended hug every day; one that lasts several minutes.  Find a purpose to each other every day.

Celebrate your love life! - Plan for special days in romantic ways.

Take note of very special days.  The ones that belong just to the two of you; your first date, when you first made love, when you moved into your home, the day you got married, the day of the proposal. Plan something really special.

Fun, fun, fun!

Kick your heels up and play like a kid again. Find out things or activities that your partner enjoy and then spend the entire day doing it together. Make a commitment to do this regularly.

Dress up and go out on the town. - Go on a date and dress to the nines!

Make it a special night; even rent a tuxedo or buy a new dress. Make advance reservations for a classy restaurant. Delight in all the planning.

Expect the unexpected.

Be spontaneous and suggest something completely out of character.  Send an intimate greeting card for no reason.  Suddenly stop beside a country road, breath in the fresh air and say, "I love you!" and then be on your way. If your partner loves sports on TV, sit alongside and watch the game, too.  Let your imagination have free reign.

Who said life had to be so serious?

There will be period of turmoil and problems will arise.  So what? Poke fun at yourself, it is very refreshing, but, not at your partner. Smile all the time.

Take on “the art of communicating.”

Your communication is the most important aspect of your love life.  Without it, you are only half a person.  We communicate in all kinds of ways, including verbal and non-verbal.  Be open to your partner and listen.  We tend to forget to listen even though it is the key to communicating.  If you are able to communicate effectively with your partner, you will feel connected.  Otherwise, a disconnection with your partner will distance the two of you and any marriage cannot survive on being distant.

Watch what you say.

Choose the words you speak with great care.  All words hastily offered cannot be easily retrieved.  They become your reality. Your love life lives on the tip of your tongue.

Make an effort each day to tell your partner how much they mean to you and how much they are appreciated.

Talk with tenderness. Use terms of endearment, such as "Honey," "Sweetie," "Baby," etc. and be polite, saying "thank you." Whisper even the simplest of words that reflect your love and your relationship will grow.

Nurture your love life with words of affection, understanding, acceptance and forgiveness. Nurture is to nourish, educate, grow or develop; cultivate.

Cultivate a healthy love life.

Sexually healthy couples can identify problems with confidence.  They can talk openly and honestly about their differences and come to workable solutions. Work on this actively, or the relationship will evaporate.

Trusting and Being Trusted.

Be honest with your partner.  Trust is the great equalizer in a good relationship; without it there is no good!  A good foundation in a healthy love relationship is built on trust and trust must be earned. Total honesty bring about trust and you must do all you can to achieve it.  Failing to do this will slowly erode any trust in your relationship.

Go the extra mile.  Motivate each other to be the best you can be.

Be inventive in coming up with ways to inspire your love life. Never stop. Use your imagination.

Agree to Agree.

It is important to understand that managing relationships are not easy.  However, any relationship becomes less of a struggle when both of you agree to do whatever it takes to make it workable. This does not mean "giving it your best shot and if it does not work, you move on." This means doing whatever it takes!

Memories last a lifetime - So can your love life.

Create a love scrapbook and keep photo albums. Stash your memories of special greeting cards, matchbook covers that remind you of great visits, snapshots, a pressed flower, ticket stubs, a handwritten love poem, a funny, thoughtful valentine.

Spread a little sunshine.

Give each other personal space.  Nothing grows well in the shade!  If you are forever in your loved one’s pocket, you can stifle the love so freely given. Even love partners need time alone. You need space. This is another way to love yourself, first.

Call the love doctor.

A lack in your love life is nearly always a symptom of something that needs fixing in the relationship.  Work on being more attentive, thoughtful and creative in expression of your love and your love life with come alive again.

Go on a date with your partner.  Even relationships that are old-hat need new juice!

Every week plan to spend some quality date time together.  Spend time away from the children.  Relive those olden days when you really lit the fire.

Practice volume control when talking.

A quiet loving voice is respectful and will get you more of what you want, more often.  No one likes a person who is loud and brash.

Push your partner’s hot buttons - Push them spontaneously.

Know what delights and pleases your partner and push those buttons often. Do it spontaneously.

Pay special attention to do this!  A warm and tender hug, a kiss on the back of the neck or an unexpected massage is all it takes to get those home fires burning again.

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