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Top 5 Signs That Your Boyfriend or Husband Is Cheating
By Melody Chase
CounsellorInABox.com

Any one who has read my other articles may notice that I don’t distinguish very often as to whether there are gender specific signs of a partner cheating.

So you may be wondering – are there any specific signs of your male partner cheating that are different than the signs of a female partner cheating?

If you are interested in finding out, this article explores the Top 5 Signs that your male partner is cheating.

Top 5 Signs That Your Girlfriend Or Wife Is Cheating

By Melody Chase

There are many signs that your partner may be having affair and many of these signs are gender specific. For this article, let’s examine the Top 5 Signs that your female partner is cheating

The following signs can all work together or be individual signs not related to the others that are listed:

1) Your Partner Changes Her Appearance: Changes in appearance is always the #1 sign of a female partner having an affair. If your partner is suddenly dressing nicer or in a way that makes her look more attractive than usual or if your partner starts doing things to make herself look better like losing weight, working-out or working out more this very well may be a sign of cheating. Another very common example of changing appearances is if she changes her hairstyle and/or hair color.

I have a question for you…

Have you ever noticed that when it comes to OTHER peoples relationships, everyone suddenly turns into Dick Tracy?

Just tell them what’s going on in someone else’s relationship and they will instantly roll their eyes and say “well she’s
cheating on him” or “he’s screwing someone else”.

A funny thing happens though when it comes to your own relationships.  People go from being “super detective” to
being deaf, dumb and blind.

The reason for this is they lack OBJECTIVITY.

They cannot look at their own relationships with any objectivity.  They can spot someone in another relationship
cheating from a mile away, but can’t do the same with their own.

And this is the 3rd notorious mistake people make when they think they’re being cheated on.

You absolutely must distance yourself from your relationship –  examine the facts — and add everything up from there.

This is also known as becoming emotionally detached.

Let me put it to you this way.

Think back to one of the happiest periods in your life — a time where a lot of things seemed to be going right.

Now, if during that time one of your friends had come to you to “lean on your shoulder” about some relationship problems they were having (and as it turns out their problems are identical to what you’re now going through), what would your thoughts have been?

Not what are your thoughts right now, but what would your thoughts have been about this during that happy period in
your life.

You probably would have a different opinion about your relationship back then you do now.

You see, right now you don’t have any clarity, any objectivity.

But you need to get it right now — and bad.

Try to look at your relationship as if it were someone else’s.  It’s not easy to do, but everyone has the ability to
do it.

Do it, and you’ll probably be surprised at what you come up with.

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I’m not going to waste any time here.

So here it goes.

One word.

MANIPULATION.

One of the biggest mistakes people make when they think they’re being cheated on is allowing themselves to be
manipulated.

This is where you start to think that you’re being cheated on, but your better half convinces you that you’re not.

What you need to know is that men and women manipulate differently.

Women manipulate men physically.

They do this by using their bodies (think SEX here).

A woman can pretty much get a man to think or do whatever they want by offering sex, or at least physical contact.

For example, if you’re a man and your woman starts to think that you’re “catching on” to what she’s doing behind your
back, she’ll offer herself physically as a method of changing your mind.

Maybe she’ll have sex with you.  Maybe she will just let you put your arm around her.  Maybe she’ll just let you touch
her while she’s sitting next to you on the couch watching TV.

In any event, she’ll offer you some sort of physical interaction that will make you think “gee, maybe she isn’t cheating on me”.

If you’re a man, remember this….women control almost all physical encounters.

After all, if a woman says “NO”, it’s rape.

The same rules don’t apply to men.

Now on the other side of the coin, men will manipulate by EMOTION.

A man can get a woman to think or do whatever he wants by pretty much just saying what she wants to hear (or doing
some little romantic trick like sending flowers).

A man can sweep a woman off her feet with just words.

A simple “I love you” or “you’re everything I’ve ever wanted and more” can emotionally melt most women.

So these are the things you need to watch out for.

If you think your lover is cheating on you, and then all of a sudden they do something “to make everything alright”, you
my friend have just been manipulated.

I know of men (who’s wives or girlfriends were cheating on them) who bought expensive jewelry for their woman just
because of some type of physical contact.

I know of women (who’s husbands or boyfriends were cheating on them) who dropped the whole notion of infidelity just because of receiving flowers or getting a loving message left on their answering machine.

You need to be completely aware of manipulation like this in your relationship.

If you’ve been emotionally abused or physically neglected for a time, and then all of a sudden something changes that
makes you happy and relieved, odd’s are you’re being manipulated.

Some women call this a “mercy …”.

Some men call this “throwing her off the trail”.

In any event, you’re letting your NEEDS open the door for your lover or your spouse to keep cheating on you, undetected.

Manipulation is a very important key to look out for.

If you’re “starving” for something in your relationship and then all of a sudden you get “fed”, well, there’s a reason
for that.

And that reason is that your lover may be thinking you’re “on to them”.

Manipulation is the FIRST thing they’ll use to shut you up.

Watch out for it and don’t fall for it!  Remember what was said here!

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