However, there are many marriages that are having a lack of sex. Couples do not realize that a lack of sex is not just a lack of physical attention. When sex is being deprived in a marriage, accumulated feelings of resentment, bitterness and desperation will happen.

Sadly, most men are insensitive towards their wives sexual needs. To them, sex means getting aroused, penetration, ejaculation and than "wham-bam-thank you honey". Before you know it, he will be fast asleep.

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Did you know that for most women, cunnilingus (oral sex) is their preferred sexual act?But with over 6,000 nerve endings in the clitoris, you need to know exactly what you're doing before poking your tongue around there, otherwise it could be really painful and, even worse, spoil the mood!

I bet majority of guys are guilty for being ill-knowledge.

I did some searching and surf around the web this week. I found an interesting book that address the fact that most women prefer oral sex than normal intercourse to make then reach orgasm. It was rather informative and made me realize how female orgasm and oral sex is in fact important and worthy of attention. I have a book review below just for you. Just make sure when you're done, you come back up and check out by clicking here - Sex In Marriage, The Female Orgasm

So does Michael's Lick-by-Lick book make the cut? Let's find out…

To be honest, at first glance I thought that a book about going down on women was silly! I mean, you just lick it and keep doing the ABC's until climax, right?

I constantly found myself skipping to the techniques section before quickly slapping myself in an attempt to read it properly BUT…

After reading the guide for a few minutes, I realized how clueless I was about giving women oral sex. And considering many studies mention that an estimated 50% of women fake orgasms, how would you ever know you're doing it right?

After flicking through a few pages, I am now a believer and was pleasantly surprised by the in-depth detail woven into this book. It covered getting a woman comfortable with the act, persuasive suggestions to make her shave, safety precautions, positions, and yes, many basic and advanced techniques!

So after reading it, I've learned to appreciate some very important details and why we often can't please our girlfriends and wives. The talk about romance, being relaxed and having a stress-free environment really hit home for me and made a lot of sense! (All things us guys tend to skip most of the time.)

All in all, Lick by Lick gives any guy the complete knowledge he needs to make any woman reach the big O. Two thumbs up from me!

So, do not hesitate. It is time to take action and find out:

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Relationship Enhancement - Zest Up Your Marriage

Sex is an important factor in any marriage.  The longer the marriage, the higher the chance couple tends to reduce the number of times they have sex in a week.  Job commitment, children and work pressure are some of the contributing factors.  They find intimacy a chore instead of a way to express love and care for each other.  This is a very sad situation.

There are also instances when woman feels that their spouse is unable to help them reach orgasm.  Hence, they have to fake it.  Due to this, woman prefers to give excuses when their spouse wants to get intimate.  If you are in such a situation, stop giving excuses.  To a man, sex is important and a lack or deprivation of it can cause them to look elsewhere.

Believe it or not, most guys will find a woman’s orgasm a wonder to behold.  It can sometimes be baffling beyond belief especially if he cannot tell if you have reached your climax.

We always presume that guys are clumsy, selfish, and impatient.  He always focuses primarily on his own pleasure.

I personally do not believe that.  I know for sure my husband wants to satisfy me as much as he wants to be satisfied sexually.  The problem is, we woman do not verbalize our wants during love making or do not assert ourselves.  It is about time we give our spouse a helping hand.

Show him how to make it happen

Just like any other things in life, yes, our man needs our help in this angle.

Here are 7 never fail tricks on how your spouse can help you reach orgasm, every time.

Lady’s first

Tell him to delay his own orgasm until after you have reached yours.  Advise him to hold off penetration for a considerable time and spend more time giving you intensity and satisfaction.

Pamper me please

Bring out the sex goddess in you by pampering yourself.  Indulge in satin bed covers, wear sexy lingerie or cover your body and genitals with scented body lotions.

Right connection

Tell your spouse to touch you as you fantasize.  Just enjoy the moment as you connect your mind and your genitals.  Encourage your spouse to try various rhythms, intensities and strokes.  Take note on what makes you feel good.

It is time for the oral exam

Oral sex is one of the best ways to ring your bells endlessly.  I guarantee when your spouse give you an outstanding oral sex, you will reach orgasm every time.

Cunnilingus and Oral Sex

My personal favorite, prepare a glass of hot drink and a glass of ice cold water.  Get your spouse to sip the hot drink and stimulate you orally.  After a while, stop and then take a sip of the ice cold water and give you oral stimulation again.  Work back and forth.  This will guarantee to drive you nuts and you will have two or more orgasm before he is even inside you.

Give him a hand

Direct him to your clitoris and encourage him to vigorously stimulate it during lovemaking.  You can use his fingers, a vibrator, your finger or anything that can make direct contact to your clitoris.

My personal favorite, after foreplay, place some lubricant on three fingers.  Place one finger directly on to the clitoris and insert the other two fingers up in the vagina.  Tell your spouse to do a low massage simultaneously.  You definitely will be begging for more.

Let us change the angle

Avoid using the same position every time.  When you vary your position, it creates a sense of mystery and this helps both of you get in the mood better.

My personal recommendation is to ride on top of your spouse for a change.  This will give you almost complete control as to when you want to reach your climax.  It is also easier for you to find your own G-spot, which is an area bout three to four inches inside you.

Let me tell and show

Most couple tends to keep silence during intercourse.  Both presume the other knows exactly what their partner wants or needs.  This is far from the truth.

Having an open communication will definitely help you reach orgasm better.  You can either allow your spouse to go through endless experimentation and both of you end up feeling frustrated and disappointed or you can choose to tell him honestly what you like him to do.

Do not keep silence.  Tell him where you want him to touch you so that you will feel good.  Better still, if you can show him and let him watch you masturbate.  This will definitely help him understand where and how you need to be pleasured.

Do not be scared or feel ashamed.  Sex is something that two people who love each other share during their intimate moments.  Every woman is different.  Only you know best what it takes to make you climax.  Rather then you end up feeling frustrated and having to fake orgasm, why not let your spouse know how you want him to do it.  By doing this, both of you end up having a great time together.  It takes as much effort to fake an orgasm as it does to reach an astonishing climax.  You make the choice.  I prefer to choose the latter.

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